A man and a woman start a family without a plan. As the day goes by, the thoughts of breaking up with your spouse start to creep in. You promise to have a life you never dreamed of. But for a variety of reasons, you become more and more desperate to break up.
Many families break up (Divorce) because of the back burner problem. There are signs that may indicate that you are thinking of leaving your wife/husband. Those signs are what we are going to look at together.
1. You are blessed
Normally things were going well before your wife gave birth. But now he doesn’t measure anything. It’s gone down. Home quarantine is not even possible. You’re left feeling like you’re on the sidelines.
After giving birth, many women lose their sex drive. There are many reasons for this: taking care of children and being very tired, taking birth control pills sometimes also affect the woman, feeling stressed because of the pain she faces during childbirth,..
Advice: So instead of being caught having sex with an employee, it is better to approach your wife and talk about it and find a solution together. Even if there are negative changes in your home, cutting back is not the cure. Talk to each other and find a solution together. You promised to be with him through thick and thin. You leave him alone.
2. It was amazing
Before you got married, you had a boyfriend/girlfriend that you were close friends with. It didn’t end there because you fell asleep. Your spouse is not as happy as your long-term partner. You always remember how he used to make you happy, but now you don’t see it at home. It is a sign that you want to get over your spouse.
Tip: Teach yourself how to work for yourself. Your long-term partner is not a kampala. If your husband/wife taught him or told him what to do for you, don’t cut him off and don’t hold anything against him.
3. You always feel like taking revenge
Your wife/husband held him back. Seek out friends and relatives who protect you and give him forgiveness and it ends. But when you sit and remember what happened, you feel lost, you feel like you want to take revenge on him and cut him off and see how it hurts.
Tip: Let’s go. You gave him forgiveness from the bottom of your heart. The fact that he didn’t do it again is that it was a tragedy that he faced and it happened to him. You want to do it right. True love forgives and forgets. If he comes back and finds out about it, he also wants to move to show you that he can do it, will you always be in that game? SIDA is out there, will the father watch the sun? Who will raise your children? Do you want to leave your children in pain?
4. No more space
Due to the busy schedule of your husband/wife, you will not have as much time as before during your honeymoon. Yes, it wouldn’t be the same even if I didn’t support him to ignore you. You are left feeling worthless in the eyes of your spouse.
That’s why you feel like you’re looking for someone to take care of you and maybe find someone else to have sex with because your home isn’t going anywhere anymore.
Advice: All problems are solved by discussion. Take the time to sit down with your partner and explain the problem to them without blaming them. Show him that something is wrong. Shoot the target and tell him that the house is being neglected and that you are going to destroy it if you don’t take care of it. If you are a listener, you will make a fixed schedule that does not interfere with his work or his other daily responsibilities but you will not be killed if you die and stay there.
Talk to your husband and show him that he doesn’t care about you anymore. Remember that it has been forgotten that women love people who love them and hurt them..
These are some of the signs. If there’s anything else you think I’ve missed, post your comment in the space provided.
