After marriage, life changes, although it does not change to the same extent as families who have been married for a year. In order to avoid bad changes in your love, after one year of marriage there are things you should have learned even if you already had them before marriage, at that time you will increase your energy.
Here are the things you should have learned after one year that will help you have a strong home:
Learning to accept the differences between you and your spouse: you and your spouse have certain differences, and these things become more apparent when you’ve been together more than before when you were young and young. So in the first year of marriage, you have to find out what is different between you and your partner and accept it.
For example, if he likes to watch football and you like to watch movies, in order to avoid conflict, accept it and know that he likes football, don’t try to convince him that movies are good.
Learning to look at the good things he has: After living together, many people are surprised because there are bad or good habits that your spouse did not want to show you when you are not together. So avoid focusing only on his bad habits and focus on his good habits.
Learning to set boundaries in your home: What the home has to offer is limited. Within one year you should know what to say to your close relative and what not to say to him, you will learn what to say to your friend and what not to say to him. Only in everything, your spouse should not hide anything if you are really living together and trusting each other.
Learning to get along with your spouse: if you have been married for a year and you don’t know how to get along with your spouse, if you are like one has a project to work on and the other has his own, you are already late because in the years ahead you will find that your love is fading away because you are not together. You just can’t sit back and think about how to fix it.
It is important to know the person you are married to and to take steps to take care of him/her:
In the one year that you have been married, you have seen a lot about your partner and you find it hard to know how to deal with it. Instead of starting to think that you are wrong, think about how you will behave or treat your spouse to prevent him from showing bad habits that you have seen in him. This includes learning how to deal with conflict.
So it’s good that if you have been married for a year, check yourself and see if you have learned all this, but even if there is something you haven’t achieved, don’t get discouraged because every time you learn it, you will put it into practice and it will go well.
